Shafa shafiq
2 min readJul 17, 2020

How I have changed?
Let me tell you a story of a child, who lived in the countryside far away from the hustle of this life. Life was simple and glassy. She used to play in the fields with her friends. She was brave and intelligent, everyone used to praise her confidence and playful nature. One day in these trouble-free days she woke up to the news that her family is moving to a city nearby. For the first time in her 6 years of life, she wasn’t happy with this decision of her family she didn’t want to move anywhere away from her friends and the moments she lived there. Life is about constant change and she has to accept this reality, if not yet may be any time soon in her life. Her family settled in a city and she got admitted to the best school which did not happen best for her. She had vitiligo on her face and she was mocked by her class fellows because of it. She wasn’t brave enough to handle it while she was just 7 years old but she never gave up on her intelligence. She started working in silence and stood first in her first year in a new school with a new syllabus and every new thing. She was intelligent and she have proved it to everyone and to herself too but during all this struggle she lost her communication skill. Obviously, that was her loss but during all this struggle it was her bravery that she stayed strong and firm. During our life, we faced a lot of obstacles because it is life it can’t be a smooth flow, every bump on the road makes us stronger and firmer. If you are not ready for struggle don’t wait for the desirous results. It is very necessary to have multi skills in your personality, communication is the main key to built better relations with others. You have to give second chance to yourself to build the best relationships and to be successful. Don’t sit back and think you can’t do any certain thing in your life. You are capable to do everything. Make a goal and strive for it. The struggle is a process and you will be successful one day and will tell your success story to everyone struggling and thinking they can’t achieve anything.
You are in charge of your own life make it worth living.
Inspired and motivated by my session with @Taghayyur. I thought I was an introverted person but now I think I am not. I am who no one can be. I am unstoppable and fierce. You can be like me just change the way you are thinking about yourself.
Regards,
Shafa Shafiq